i will tell you my life lesson about choices .
i grew up in a nyc housing project and hung out with a rough group .
well one day the group decided to do something bad .
well using our own senses a buddy and i opted out and didnt join the group .
next thing that happened is my buddy was arrested .
him and i had nothing to do with what the group was busted for yet somehow my buddy got accused .
his family was just over the limit for legal aid and couldnt afford a layer .
so he was going to opt to plead guily and avoid a trial .
what
 ??   he was going to plead guilty to something he didnt do simply because he HAD NO CHOICE .
??   he was going to plead guilty to something he didnt do simply because he HAD NO CHOICE .at the last minute a relative took an equity loan and got him an attorney .. he was found not guilty and all charges dropped .
i learned early on about how important having choices can be
 
				





 Congrats, and I know exactly how you feel, being one of the oldest dads in captivity myself.
 Congrats, and I know exactly how you feel, being one of the oldest dads in captivity myself. 
